By Brett Kaufman. 8 years using relationships to build sales pipelines, from political fundraising to a 7 figure business to running matchmaking for two communities. Over 1,000 introductions facilitated.

How to get on investment banker buyer lists: give the banker a current, specific box (what you buy, size, geography, capital), proof you close, and fast, clear answers on every teaser. You stay on the list by being recent: a real reason to hear from you between processes, so you come to mind when the next book is built.

The teaser went out on a Tuesday. You heard about it two weeks later from another buyer, after first round bids were in. You had met that banker at a chapter dinner in the spring. Good conversation. You never followed up, and the next time he built a buyer list your name was not in his head.

He did not cut you. He built the list from the groups he had heard from lately.

How do investment bankers build a buyer list?

Bankers build buyer lists from three places, roughly in this order: buyers they have closed with or seen bid seriously, groups whose criteria they know fit, and screens of deal databases. The first two get the early call. The third gets the blast.

The relationship channel is big. In What Do Private Equity Firms Say They Do?, Gompers, Kaplan and Mukharlyamov surveyed 79 PE investors and found about 33 percent of closed deals came from investment banks. A third of the deals, and the order of the list decides who sees them early.

What do bankers want to see from each kind of buyer?

Each buyer type has a different question to answer before a banker spends a slot on them. This is my read of it, not a published standard.

Buyer type	The banker’s question	What to show
PE fund	Is this in their box, and do they close?	Current criteria, fund size, recent platforms and add ons
Independent sponsor	Is the capital real?	Named equity partners or lender, prior closes, time to IOI
Family office	Will they actually transact?	Direct deals done, decision maker on the call
Searcher	Can they close and run it?	Investors or SBA lender, operating plan, any prior close
Strategic	Is this a real priority?	Corp dev owner, recent acquisitions, board appetite

One more thing worth knowing. Some smaller sell side shops rely on the federal M&A broker exemption in Section 15(b)(13) of the Exchange Act. Among its conditions, the broker must reasonably believe the buyer will control the company and be active in its management, directly or indirectly, and it cannot be a passive buyer or a buyer group the broker assembles. If you are a passive minority investor, that can quietly keep you off some lists. I am not a lawyer; ask the banker how they are set up.

How to get on investment banker buyer lists the first time

Make it easy to match you, then prove it on the first book. Here is how I would do it:

1. Send a one page box. Sectors, EBITDA range, geography, control or minority, how you fund it, and two or three deals closed. Searchers can start from the buyer profile template brokers remember; the same logic works for bankers.
2. Ask what they have coming, not what they have now. The banker’s next mandate is the one worth being early on.
3. Sign the first NDA fast. Speed is the first data point they have on you.
4. Answer every teaser within two business days. Yes, no, or one specific question.
5. Show up where they show up. ACG says it serves more than 100,000 investors, executives, lenders and advisers in 61 markets. Your local chapter is where lower middle market bankers spend their evenings.

How should I pass on a teaser?

Fast and specific, because the pass is how a banker learns your box. In the same survey, the average PE investor closed about 6 of every 100 opportunities considered. Most of your answers will be no. The quality of the no decides whether you get the next one.

A pass template, under 40 words:

“Passing on Project Atlas. Customer concentration is above where we go, top client near 40%. Same sector under $4M EBITDA with a broader base is right in the box. Thanks for thinking of us.”

Project name and numbers are placeholders. The structure is the point: the decision, the one reason, what would fit, thanks.

How do I stay on the list between processes?

Be recent, with a reason, on a rhythm you can keep. A banker builds the next list in an afternoon. The names that come to mind are the ones who were in touch lately.

Reasons that work:

• You closed something. Tell the bankers who showed you anything in that sector, including ones you lost.
• Your box changed. New fund, new lender, new sector. Send the updated page.
• They closed a deal you did not win. Congratulate them and ask what the winner did right.
• You can send them something. An owner thinking about selling who needs a banker, not a buyer. Nothing keeps you on a list like being a source.
• You met and never followed up. The longer it waits, the harder it gets.

If you run a fund, how PE firms source proprietary deals shows where banker flow sits next to self generated work, and the best CRM for private equity covers the firm record. If you also buy through business brokers, the business broker relationship playbook runs on the same rule, and deal flow for business buyers puts every channel in one system.

Here is how I would run it

I learned the recency rule in political fundraising. I raised $3M with a manual tracking system: after every call I wrote down what mattered to that person and used it the next time. People who felt remembered stayed close. It took hours a week by hand.

For a buyer covering 30 or 40 bankers, the work is the same. Know who you have not spoken to lately, have a real reason, keep it short, do it every day in a few minutes instead of once a quarter.

That is what FRONT OF MIND does. It opens on your 10 minutes for today. Each person has one line on why today: they posted, their company was in the news, you met at an event weeks ago and never followed up, a deal in your pipeline has been quiet 7 days, they are going cold. Each has a draft written like a text, 40 words max. Nothing sends without your tap, and it learns from your edits. Posts only show up if they are confirmed to belong to that person.

It runs in your phone’s browser and saves to your home screen. No native iPhone app yet. Your contacts are encrypted. No one on our team looks at them. Export and delete anytime. Concierge setup is $500 if you want it done for you.

If FRONT OF MIND doesn’t surface people in your network worth reaching out to within 72 hours, we’ll refund you. No questions asked.

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